As a soccer coach, the impact you have extends far beyond the tactics and drills you teach; it’s also in how you present yourself and interact with your players. My partner often tells me that my emotions are “written all over my face,” a reminder of how much our body language and expressions can communicate, often subconsciously. This realization is crucial when stepping onto the field to coach young, impressionable players.
Stepping onto the pitch should be a ritual of transformation—leaving behind the stresses of adult life and fully immersing in the role of a coach who is passionate and positive. The energy and enthusiasm you bring to the field don’t just influence the mood; they set the tone for the entire session. It’s infectious, and as the leader, your demeanour can either uplift or deflate the spirit of the game.
It’s not always easy, especially after a challenging day. Maybe you struggled at work, skipped lunch, or had a disagreement with a colleague. Despite these challenges, the moment you enter the soccer pitch, you have an opportunity to reset. Coaching isn’t just about teaching; it can be a form of meditation, a chance to rejuvenate your spirit by engaging in something you love while impacting young lives.
However, coaching is not without its tests of patience. Just as we might have tough days, so too do our young players. They spend long hours locked in a classroom, facing their own set of challenges—be it academic pressures, social struggles, or personal issues. When you notice that they are not listening, not understanding, or seem disinterested, it’s not necessarily a reflection of your coaching or their attitude towards the game—it could simply be the result of a long day.
Patience is your greatest ally here. Remember, these young players are still developing emotionally and mentally. They need time to transition from the structure of a classroom to the freedom and fun of the soccer field. When sessions don’t go as planned, it’s helpful to have a fallback plan that works; “Let’s have a game!”.
In essence, coaching with passion, positivity, and patience not only enhances your players’ experience but also enriches your own. Each training session offers a unique opportunity to reset your emotional state, connect deeply with your team, and contribute positively to their growth. So next time you step onto that pitch, remember the Triple P’s: Be Passionate, Be Positive, Be Patient. This approach will not only help your players thrive but will also turn your coaching experience into a rewarding part of your day.
